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Do you find yourself enjoying striking up conversations with new people but also love time alone to unwind? If so — you might be an ambivert. The personality type strikes a balance between being an introvert and an extrovert.
According to Parade, ambiverts fall in the middle of the personality spectrum. “An ambivert is someone who has the personality characteristics of an extrovert and an introvert,” Dr. Vaughan, a licensed professional counselor, tells Parade.
Signs That You’re an Ambivert
Perhaps you identify with a need for quiet time and also feeling like a social butterfly and are trying to figure out where you fit. Here are the signs that you’re this unique personality type.
You’re Intentional When it Comes to Socializing
Ambiverts need to spend both time alone and socializing to avoid feeling drained. This personality type doesn’t seek out interaction unless there’s a meaningful reason, NBC reports. They carefully choose opportunities that match their goals, values, and energy levels.
You Enjoy the Beauty of Being With Yourself
Another sign you’re an ambivert? You love alone time and it serves a variety of purposes. For ambiverts alone time can be relaxing and productive. It’s a way to process, reflect, and plan. After a long day, alone time can be the best way for you to step back and recharge, emerging afterwards with new insights and ideas.
Communicating and Leading With Intention
Ambiverts communicate with intention. While extroverts often speak when they shouldn't, and introverts often don't communicate when they should, ambiverts are aware when they should talk and listen. They can also effortlessly navigate group discussions, excel at taking the lead, and allow others to have space to shine.
You Can Speak Introvert and Extrovert
Finally, the tell-tale sign you’re an ambivert is an ability to adjust your communication to align with other people’s preferences and energy. You can dive into deep discussions with quieter individuals and engage in lively discussions with people who are more outgoing.
The Power of Ambiverts
So what are the benefits of ambiversion? According to Parade, ambiverts can be like chameleons. “Depending on the setting and the people around them, these characteristics can vary, allowing ambiverts to adapt to different social situations with ease,” Dr. Scott Lyons, a licensed holistic psychologist, tells Parade.
In fact, it’s the adaptable nature of ambiverts that makes them well liked, according to verywell mind. For instance, some find it refreshing that they can take the lead when needed, and also value their ability to not always be the loudest voice in the room.
They tend to have an easy time making friends and can relate well to both introverts and extroverts. This is because ambiverts share both traits. So, if you’re an ambivert — embrace your unique blend of qualities, and know that you get to enjoy the best of both worlds!
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